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Somehow You Just Know

I’m watching massive amounts of football again today.

Just love fall sports! 🙂

I don’t really follow specific teams, so I generally channel surf while I watch.

I was watching the Dallas Cowboys vs the Philadelphia Eagles and happened to be watching when Cowboy franchise quarterback, Tony Romo, was hit during a play.

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As Romo walked off the field with assistance, anyone who was watching could see him mouth the words, “It’s broke.”

And indeed, he was right. Romo fractured his left clavicle.

I’ve broken quite a few bones in my lifetime. Our son, Rich, has broken at least a dozen. And our daughter, Melissa, has broken at least one. Rich has never broken a bone (which the rest of us find weird).

Anyway, it never ceases to amaze me that within a minute after the break, we have all said, “It’s broke.”

That quickly after the fall, hit, or whatever caused the break, it’s too soon for swelling,  but somehow you just know. It’s a distinct combination of intuition, nausea, and dread…

Somehow you just know that the bone is cracked… And sometimes, two are cracked.

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Mirna! My New Inspiration!

I miss hiking and trail running in the mountains!

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I’ve been using the hot weather as an excuse to take a break from pickleball and go for a hike.

I’ve also been postponing going because I get frustrated with how slow I am and how winded I get because of the changes in my body since my bicycle fall four years ago.

Last night I watched a story about a runner named Mirna on NBC News that has inspired me to go next week regardless of what the temperature is or how slow I am…

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Mirna is a fantastic woman who loves to run and measures her time running in hours, not distances. A good long run is three to six hours–yep hours.

She has inspired me to load Sophie in the Jeep, drive up near our old house, take a long, slow jog along what I used to call The Ranch Run. Pictures soon. 🙂

‘Fat Girl Running’ Blogger Challenges Stereotypes Miles at a Time

On a recent foggy morning in the mountains of rural Georgia, Mirna Valerio was doing what she loves: running. On this particular morning, she led a small group of women on a jog across the picturesque campus of the Rabun Gap-Nacoochee School, a prep school where she works as a teacher.

The women diligently followed her lead as she changed course, uphill and downhill, pounding the pavement despite the muggy conditions. Most of the women said they were there because of Valerio.

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“I didn’t do much running before meeting Mirna,” said one, while another credited Valerio with “always getting us going.”

Valerio, 39, does not fit the mold of a cross-country runner. She is overweight and keeps a slow pace as she methodically traverses mile after mile. She says when passersby see her running, they see “a fat girl running” and she’s comfortable with that label and even embraces it. When she started a runner’s blog in 2011, she aptly titled it “Fat Girl Running.”

The video below is what aired on NBC News:

It was not until a July 2015 profile in Runner’s World, however, that she became a well-known figure in the running world. The article sent a flood of traffic to Valerio’s blog. Runners of all shapes, sizes, and genders expressed their solidarity and support.

Overnight, Valerio became the voice for a whole class of athlete. “I too am a 250 pound runner,” wrote one reader. “And examples like yours make that a little easier.”

“Mirna, you have no idea what you have done to inspire literally every woman, not just women of size, but every woman to get out there and accomplish and achieve,” wrote another.

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For those uninitiated in the world of distance running, Valerio’s accomplishments are impressive. Her own personal record is 35 miles, a run that took her more than 13 hours to complete. She admits it sounds crazy — doing anything for that long — but says she is drawn by a love the outdoors and a passion about the challenges that long distance running brings.

Valerio was not always an avid runner. In 2009, she weighed more than 300 pounds. She says she often suffered from sharp chest pains, signs that led her doctor to issue her a blunt warning: She would not live to see her young son grow up if she didn’t lose weight. That scare set her in motion on to the path where she finds herself today.

She took up running. Getting on the treadmill for that first mile, she says, was slow and painful. She clocked in at 17 minutes, 45 seconds. Within the course of the next six to seven months, she lost 41 pounds.

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Miles don’t phase Valerio now. She says she craves the physical, emotional, and mental challenges of getting through a 26.2 mile marathon — a physical feat hardly matched in all of sports.

Next month, she will run the Javelina Jundred, an annual 100k race in the Arizona desert. Despite the impressive mileage she clocks, her weight remains mostly stable.

Valerio knows most people view her as fat. And she has no problem with that.

The video below is an excellent up close and personal expose of Mirna.

Strange Football Ad

I watched football yesterday. A lot of it.

And while the football was very good, one of the ads that aired multiple times had me perplexed.

Usually football ads involve beer, pizza, tools–you know, things the quintessential male couch potato enjoys…

But I lost track how many times I saw Matthew McConaughey driving a Lincoln.

1001-McConaughey-Lincoln-970-630x420I don’t quite get the connection between McConaughey and football and why the advertisers think that airing their ads during an NFL game makes sense.

  • McConaughey is super thin and most couch potatoes watching football have loosened their pants so that they can eat more chips and dip.
  • He tries to come across as cerebral and metaphysical–two qualities rather lost on most weekend warriors who turn off their brains for the weekend until they go back to work on Monday

So here’s the interesting thing…

Apparently the ad works!

Lincoln’s sales went up 25% after McConaughey’s first Lincoln ad aired.

I’m not sure if it initially aired during football games or during opera performances; the latter seems like a better fit to me.

Maybe opera fans were Lincoln’s first target market, and now football fans are their next target.

For those who haven’t seen it, here’s a fantastically funny parody of a McConaughey-Lincoln ad by Jim Carrey for Saturday Night Live:

And another ad spoofed by Ellen Degeneres that is very funny, too:

How Low Will He Go?

I’m so saddened by Donald Trump’s latest misogynistic statement.

This one was about political rival Carly Fiorina.

Look at that face! Would anyone vote for that? Can you imagine that, the face of our next president?” Trump reportedly bellowed while watching his Republican presidential rival on the news. “I mean, she’s a woman, and I’m not s’posedta say bad things, but really, folks, come on. Are we serious?

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What saddens me is that many people will either laugh and/or embrace his comments because they will use the excuse that it’s so refreshing to hear someone NOT be politically correct.

There’s a huge different between not being politically correct and being rude, mean, obnoxious, and stupid.

And while this Tweet from Carly Fiorina is from when Trump insulted Megyn Kelly for her tough questioning after the first debate, her message still rings true.

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Body Positivity +

I don’t even know where to begin or what to say…

apbAmy Pence Brown, a Boise artist, is simply and amazingly beautiful!!!!!

And so are the people who took the time to ♥ her.

A few weeks ago she went to the center of the Capitol City Public Market in downtown Boise, stripped down to her two piece bathing suit, put on a blindfold, grabbed two markers, and placed a sign in front of her that said,

“I’m standing for anyone who has struggled with a self-esteem issue like me, because all bodies are valuable. To support self-acceptance, draw a  ‘♥’ on my body.” Over the course of an hour, she had dozens of hearts drawn on her and made hundreds of spectators think…

Read more about her Stand for Self Love. You’ll be REALLY glad you did. 🙂

Excerpts:

The dad who stood in front of me with his two young sons and knelt down to tell them to “this is what a beautiful woman looks like.”

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And the twentysomething man who stood behind me and whispered, “The effects of what you are doing here are far reaching. It’s absolutely amazing. The power of this moment will go on and in ways you never thought possible. You are changing more lives than you know.”

Wait a Bit…

I’m definitely getting wiser as I get older.

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And that’s a good thing.

Here’s an example…

I’m trying to decide if I want to run for an office in one of our local pickleball clubs.

I’d never run for president, but I think I’d be happy as secretary–not too much responsibility but enough to feel like I’m contributing.

In years past, I would have just jumped right in without looking!

jumprightinThis morning, I called the current secretary and talked about her duties. I felt comfortable calling her because she actually emailed me to ask me to nominate myself for the position.

I’m a bit leery about offering to help because of a couple of reasons:

I’m already doing the Web and lots of the computer work for another pickleball group in the valley.

But, more importantly, I was worried that the secretary position would require me to set up social engagements–definitely not my strong suit, let alone something I would endeavor with relish.

asI actually AM anti-social, and I do have a strong aversion to B.S., drama, and pretending, let alone making small talk.

Anyway, it’s nice to have the wisdom that’s accompanying my age and take time to reflect before making a decision I might regret. 🙂

 

Road Trip!

As you read this, dear Gentle Blogreader, I’ll be on a road trip driving from Fallon to home.

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Unlike those young men from Animal House on their road trip,

animal-house_ccI won’t be driving with others and/or drinking beer.

I will be driving solo,

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and drinking Diet Pepsi while I listen to a David Baldacci book.

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I’ve had a wonderful visit with my dad. And I’ve enjoyed visiting with other family members while I’ve been here.

But I miss Rich and I miss Sophie, and I can’t wait to get HOME….

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Cuckoo, Cuckoo, Cuckoo…

I’m in Fallon a few days visiting my dad.

For as long as I can remember, well at least 45 years, my parents have had a cuckoo clock. Here’s the one Dad has right now:

0904152055While we’ve been visiting and all during the last few nights, the cuckoo has performed twice per hour. One cuckoo on the half hour, and one cuckoo for each hour on the hour.

The amazing thing is that even though I’ve been away for so long and not lived with my parents for nearly 40 years, the clock’s cuckoos don’t wake me or sound strange.

Sounds like home… 🙂

Why I Admire Coach Pete

Stayed up late last night to watch Boise State University barely beat University of Washington in their season opening game.

The BSU Broncos were favored by up to 11 points, but the U-Dub Huskies were coached by Chris Petersen–the BSU Broncos’ coach up until last year. And the Huskies nearly pulled off an upset.

First college games of the season are nearly always raw and ugly because there is not much time to practice and there are no preseason warm-up games. This game’s rawness was no exception.

BSU won 16-13. They scored their 16 points easily in the first half,  and then gave up 13 unanswered points.

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The match up has been brewing to a fever pitch ever since Coach Pete left BSU in early December of 2013.

I’ve always admired him–the way he coaches, the way he prepares his teams, the way he handles the media, and so on…

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And after last night’s game, he warmly greeted and hugged the BSU coaches and players, many of who he trained and recruited, before leaving the Blue Turf for the final time.

My Two Cents

I’m probably going to ruffle a few of my Gentle Blogreaders’  feathers with today’s post, but hopefully we can agree to disagree…

Today’s post concerns Kim Davis, the Kentucky clerk who has been jailed for contempt of court because she refused “to heed a U.S. Supreme Court order legalizing same-sex marriage”.

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Not only did Davis refuse to heed the order, she was, in essence, given a second chance by being asked to agree not to interfere with five deputy clerks who had told the federal judge that they would issue them in her stead.

Davis’ lawyer told the judge that Davis would not allow her deputies to issue the licenses either. Her objection is that her name and title is printed on the licenses.

If she is found guilty of misconduct, Davis could face up to one year of imprisonment.

I wondered why she wasn’t simply fired. Because Kim Davis is an elected official,  she cannot be fired.

The state legislature could vote to impeach her.  However most Kentucky voters oppose same-sex marriage,  and it’s a pretty sure bet Davis won’t be impeached.

I acknowledge her convictions and support her right to honor her beliefs.

But I don’t think she should be able to keep her governmental job if she refuses to comply with federal law.

And that’s my two cents…

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