Category Archives: Memories

I LOVE My Dog

Boise, Idaho

We’ve been “house shopping” or, as our wise real estate agent corrected me, we’ve been “house looking” since we got into Boise on Wednesday afternoon.

That’s two and a half days that poor Sophie has been stuck in the Jeep while we drive and discuss and look and discuss and whine because it’s hard to find the best fit to meet our needs.

Sophie’s been a trooper and hasn’t complained. She’s whined a bit along with us, but she’s been really quite agreeable as we muddle through the ‘house looking’.

I didn’t take any pictures of her forlornly looking at us from inside the Jeep. She just looked too sad…

Instead, I’ll honor her today by showing some pictures of Sophie over the last few years!

Taking a Nap

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Taking a Lawn Bath

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Tending a New Friend

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On Homer Dash Patrol

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Munching the Pet Grass

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Welcoming Richie

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Stand Up Paddleboarding

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On Squirrel Patrol

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Chipmunk Teasing

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Napping with Rich

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“You Looking at Me?”

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Looking for “My People”

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Swimming

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I LOVE MY DOG! (And she loves me ALMOST as much as she loves Rich!)

Bootleg Canyon

Boulder City, Nevada

We crossed into our 12th state recently. So we’ve stayed in one-quarter of the lower 48 states. Amazing…

We went for a short hike in the River Mountains area near Boulder City.

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There’s a great mountain bike park that’s perfect for a hike. It’s called Bootleg Canyon.

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As you can see from the legend above and map below, it’s an amazingly complex set of trails with lots of challenges.

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The area of the park leading to the trails was exquisitely designed with stunning rock formations and a wide variety of mostly native plants.

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Sophie found a treasure: a small desert tortoise.

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She only sniffed it once and then thankfully let it be. It was teeny tiny- -about 3″ long. They are endangered and protected. I took my picture from at least six feet away as it slowly crawled away.

One of the things that surprised me in the bike park was the use of wood to create props for people to ride over.

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There were ramps and bridges. I’m sure the riders appreciate and use them.

The area reminded me of a place near where I used to live in Reno before turning ten.

Carol and I used to spend hours at “Lizard Country”–a pond about half a mile down the street. We caught lizards using sticks and dental floss with a special knot our dad taught us to make.

We caught tadpoles and kept them in special buckets with rocks and water, watching their metamorphosis into frogs.

And we had a blast!

Bittersweet

El Mirage, Arizona

We had an impromptu, leisurely, and lovely visit with Dean and Lil last night.

As we ate a scrumptious dinner, we were rewarded with the loveliest sunset I’ve ever seen…

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While the desert  sunset was amazing, even more awesome was visiting with our wonderful friends again.

Felt like being home again like all those years we were next door neighbors.

Very bittersweet to feel such love at the same time as much sadness because we can’t do it more often.

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What Number Are You?

El Mirage, Arizona

There is a lot of “round robin” pickleball play at this resort.

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What that means is that we are all assigned a number and then paired off with different partners to play different teams for each game.

Round robins are a great way to get lots of varied play, but they can get a bit confusing because we have to match up with our different playing partners and opponents.

We are continually asking each other, “What number are you?”

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That reminds me of a true story of when Melissa was babysitting our friends’ child Teddy…

Teddy grew up on a dairy ranch and loved everything to do with the cows and ranching, so much so that it was hard for him to go school. He’d rather have been at home with the cows than wasting time at school.

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Teddy hated kindergarten so much that he ran to the chain link fence, clung to it, and screamed, “Don’t leave me here!” after his mother dropped him off each morning.

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When Melissa was babysitting him, they were talking about school.

Teddy asked Melissa, “What number are you?”

“What?” Melissa asked, unsure what he meant.

“What number are you?” Teddy repeated. “You know, I’m a zero. Next year, I’ll be a one. What number are you?”

Finally Melissa realized that Teddy was asking what grade she was in.

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“Oh,” she said, “I’m a ten,” indicating that she was a sophomore in tenth grade. “Next year, I’ll be an eleven, and then the year after I’ll finally be a twelve.”

Teddy looked at Melissa with a horrified look and wailed, “You mean it goes ALL the way to TWELVE?”

PS I’m happy to report that Teddy not only made it through twelve, he also complete college and is working with his beloved cows as a dairy farmer. 🙂

Random Stories

Gold Canyon, Arizona

We’ve heard some great stories over the last month, so I need to get the best ones down on paper before I forget…

What’s That?

Mike and Carol were lying in bed. Mike was watching TV while Carol was surfing on her iPad.

Mike tooted.

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Carol said nothing.

About five minutes later, Mike tooted again.

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Carol asked, “What’s that?” like she didn’t understand what he was trying to say.

Mike said, “I already told you twice, and I’m not going to tell you a third time.”

 

Get the Bird

Mike, our neighbor at Gold Canyon RV Resort, grew up near Buffalo, New York. Every Thanksgiving, his dad went out hunting for pheasant while his mother prepared and cooked the entire Thanksgiving meal.

Dad would leave early in the morning, hunt most of the day, and return empty handed.

Pheasant_HuntingOne year, Mike’s mom had to make a last minute run to the store to get a few things. As she was driving home, a pheasant literally dropped onto her car. It apparently had been shot by someone nearby and died. She got out and picked it up.

When Mike’s dad got home, she asked him if he got any birds. He said, “No.”

She said, “Well, it looks like I have to do everything around here.” She calmly handed him the pheasant and said, “The least you can do is clean it.”

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Ode to Snow

Gold Canyon, Arizona

I’m really missing snow especially with the recent huge storm along the California coast that’s dumping lots of snow in the Sierras.

Rich and I took a drive to Lake Tahoe many years ago after such a storm so I could take pictures.

These look like they’ve been Photoshopped, but they weren’t. The sun was shining through parts of the clouds and made Tahoe look like it was iced over.

It was a very special day, and I’ll let the pictures speak for themselves…

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Heathrow Goodbyes

Boise, Idaho

Carol and I had to unexpectedly fly home yesterday. Flights were quickly changed, activities canceled, and Carol and I hugged goodbye, several times…

This brought back memories of our trip to Europe to see Richie.

We were set to fly from Dublin, Ireland, to London, England. Once there we would split up. Richie would fly back to Hamburg and grad school.

Landungsbruecken_Hamburg_Olaf__32ce8cbf5dCarol and I would fly to Munich and start hiking through Bavaria.

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But, there was huge computer glitch that disabled the majority of air travel in western Europe. Long story short, it was a mess.

We finally got to Heathrow and hoped to make our connecting flights.

Richie and I hugged quickly and said our goodbyes. I was crying because I wouldn’t see him for at least a year…

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Alas, our connecting flights were canceled. I think we set up a rendezvous spot just in case that happened. So we met again.

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We got in line to try to find a hotel room for the night. The cheapest we could find was over $300; way too much for maybe six hours of sleep…

Richie called his friend Simon who lives in London. Simon said we could all crash at his place, but I was too worried about making our morning flight. So Carol and I decided to spend the night at the airport along with oodles of other stranded passengers.

Once again I said a tearful goodbye to Richie…

After a rather sleepless night, I mistakenly walked into the men’s restroom to brush my teeth. 🙂

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As I was walking back to join Carol, guess who I ran into? Yep, Richie, looking fresh and relaxed after a wonderful night’s sleep in Simon’s flat.

So for the third and final time, I bade Richie a tearful farewell. It was excruciatingly bittersweet.

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Yesterday, Carol and I went through goodbyes two times.

Richie called me while Carol and I were saying our second goodbyes when he was on a layover in Chicago on a business trip.

Carol told him it was like Heathrow all over again…

Old Couples

Boise, Idaho

I was sitting in the Boise Airport yesterday waiting for my flight to Las Vegas to visit with Carol. Within ten feet of me there were two couples who are in their late seventies.

Oh my goodness! There’s something so special about couples who have been together over three decades. And come to think of it, Carol and I are a couple who have been together for almost six decades. 🙂

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There’s a succinctness in dialogue spoken in front of others that’s usually not there when they are alone.

Dialogue is  often missing words and even whole sentences. and yet each understands what the other is conveying perfectly.

Another phenomenon that I’ve noticed with couples who have been together for many, many years is that they often talk like there is no one else listening to their conversation regardless if there are two or twenty people in the same room.

So in addition to being succinct they also tend to say exactly what they want with no filter.

Carol and used to talk a lot like that when we double dated. One would start a sentence and the other would halfway finish it. There was no reason to completely finish it because each of us knew what was unsaid. Used to drive our dates nuts!

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My favorite story showing old couple communication involved Rich’s aunt and uncle Sis and Howard Winder. Howard rarely went to Reno, so he hadn’t seen his son James for a while. On a trip from their home in Fallon to see doctors in Reno, Sis and How stopped by to see James at his new home.

Howard was a dyed in the wool cattle rancher–cowboy hat and boots and silver buckle on a hand told leather belt.

James is a sophisticated doctor who is now a university professor.

They were very different, but their love for each other knew no bounds.

Howard stepped out of the pickup, looked at James, and said to Sis (as only someone who’s been married over 40 years would), “Jeeeesus Chriiiiist! He’s got a pony tail!”

I don’t think that it ever occurred to Howard that James could hear his comment just as Sis did…

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(This picture isn’t of James; it’s just to show a man’s ponytail…)

James didn’t take offense. He just giggled when he told me the story.

Cue the Deer

Boise, Idaho

While we were in eastern Idaho last week, Rich and I took a drive to tour Driggs, Idaho.

We hadn’t been there in almost 14 years. Wow, has it changed.

We were there for a long Thanksgiving weekend in November of 2000.

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Richie was a senior at Montana State University. Melissa was a freshman at Boise State University. And I was a junior at University of Nevada, Reno.

This was the second Thanking we were going to spend on our own, not with any other family, since Rich and I married in 1977.

Rich and I drove from Fallon up to Boise and picked Melissa up. Richie drove down from Bozeman.

We rented a log house on a working cattle  ranch just outside of Driggs. Located at the base of the Grand Tetons, Driggs is the cheap Idaho side of the Tetons, not the expensive Wyoming side.

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It was a very special holiday. For lots of reasons…

I went for run once we unpacked. The ranch was so close to the state line that I literally ran to Wyoming. That’s the first time I ran across a state line. 🙂

George W. Bush and Al Gore were in the middle of battling over hanging chads.

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We had no television at all; radio reception was very spotty because the ranch was so remote and the weather was bad. In 2000 there was no Internet available other than dial up, and the house didn’t have any connectivity. We drove miles and miles to try to find a newspaper with current national news, but we never did find one.

Richie and I were going crazy because we wanted to know what was happening. Rich and Melissa could have cared less…

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It was freezing cold. Rich was in heaven stoking the fire in the huge masonry fireplace.

It snowed a little on Thanksgiving night, adding the perfect ambiance to the weekend.

Have you ever seen the Chevy Chase movie “Funny Farm”? It’s a great comedy about a young couple that moved from New York City to a farm in Connecticut.

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One of our favorite scenes involves sending a deer across their yard when prospective buyers are looking at the farm. The deer is released with the now infamous line, “Cue the deer.”

While we were there, someone kept cueing the fox because it ran across the yard multiple times. (Not my photo…)

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That was our best Thanksgiving ever, and driving to Driggs brought all those happy memories back.